Yes, it’s nothing personal, but seriously, dealing you a person like you is SUCH A PAIN IN THE ASS!
It is not that I have anything at all against network marketers. In fact, I have been there and done that once (in fact, twice), and have taken home both valuable lessons and sufficiently satisfactory results. Why have I left then? Now that I look at you, I am clearly reminded of the reason – I despise the culture. In fact, I despise it to the very very core!
Let me place a mirror before you, so that you may reflect on how stupid you actually look:
1) Your ridiculously inappropriate dress code.
Your hairstyle is military, you take the public transport every day, occasionally riding on your dad’s pillion. And you live in a tropical country called Singapore. Why the hell would you want to wear a blazer everywhere you go, carrying a laptop, a gym bag, and some other rubbish.
You say it is for image, but the sheer stench of your sweat is enough to ward off the plagues from hell, let alone your clients. You say it is for professionalism. I believe you do not even have an understanding as to what the word connotes; consequentially leading you to believe that it is the equivalent of putting yourself through suffering and pain for no justifiable reason.
2) Your fanatical admiration for the rich
Yes, it is good that we all take reference from those who have been there and done that, leverage off their experience so that we get there faster. Such a thought is most relevant, and in fact is commonly known as “Education” (a very old and influential industry).
It does not, however, serve you or me or anybody at all, any purpose to go around the network marketing company office pointing to the leaders and telling everyone how much they make. If you are actually making a sales pitch, in this word of mouth industry, it makes ten times more sense to tell your prospect how much YOU make.
The surprising thing is, you continue to do that outside the office, everywhere else you go, ranting away about another person’s success and so-called 6 figure income. Honestly, does it make you feel better, more faithful to your “religion”?
In fact, you have grown, knowingly or not, to come to measure success by monetary means. I truly pity your state. As the saying goes, “Real poverty is poverty at heart”. If material gains are all you look for in life, be prepared to live a very meaningless life. Don’t be too sure you will succeed in your cash accumulation efforts as yet, for cash does not even flock to those who have no purpose for it.
3) Your claims and actions do not match
If you have not realised, while you are claiming that you have millions worth of deals in your raw commodities trading business, I am quite sure it is all a hoax, if you have not realised.
Firstly, your supply sources are illegal (which also explains why I refuse to reveal my demand channels to you). If you are willing to take the risk, you have to be quite sure your buyer is also willing to do the same. If not, you are pretty much the same as pirates and conmen.
Secondly, you don’t even have the god damn supply and demand sorted out. Which supplier tells me their clients never ask for raw material composition when dealing? You are the first, in my entire 9 years of business experience. You obviously do not know your product, and thus have no means of effectively selling it.
Thirdly, if you are really doing what you claim, why the hell are you working on so many other sidelines? Why aren’t you sitting amongst the elite 1000, or invited to any of the bigger events? Even I have been there, and I cannot claim that I have such income as yet (minus my unorthodox and frequently banned casino method).
4) You are not learning
Those who cannot take criticism and self reflect, will never learn, no matter how many times they fall. I have very sure, you current monthly income does not exceed 1k. It is not shameful to tell others you are in some financial difficulty. The important thing is, that you have the capability to get yourself out of and beyond it.
When you meet entrepreneurs who do not agree with your views, you brush them off as “people who are not meant for great things”. Honestly and in case you have not realised, these people run companies with 7 figure annual turnovers. Yes that may not be much, but they are definitely way beyond you, and will thus have a lot you can learn from.
In summary, your current state is quite similar to the mentally ill. You believe you are a somebody, somewhere doing something you are not. It is sad that people are dishonest to each other, but it is disgusting when a person cannot even be honest with himself.
Be humble, because you are not there now.
And when you eventually are there, I hope you can choose to continue practicing humility.